Our happiness is threatened by our ability to self-analyse ourselves.
I know that I’m not perfect; I have to perform, which brings me down, happiness, and all my state of mind.
I’m looking for answers to my problems, but I’m starting to think this may be the real problem.
You will never end up improving yourself, because you will never be perfect.
Often I find myself in a loop which is very difficult to get rid of.
We do not have to identify ourselves with our results.
This is one mistake that I make often.
When I have something to do, I want to do it to the best of my possibility, but it is never enough.
Perfection is the same power that makes me willing to work harder and harder and also the same that holds me back from achieving my results.
This is the reason why we don’t try and we don’t fall.
Sometimes good is enough.
We do not give ourselves the possibility to fail and to grow.
It’s useful to think about something that scares us as an experiment, you don’t want to see things as if they were life-changing, because 99% of the time they aren’t, but we still put ourselves to much pressure with the risk of burnout.
Thinking with a matter of experiment allow yourself to fail.
I didn’t realize it before, probably because I didn’t want to accept it, I always had the vision of myself to be careless of my results.
But evidently, we are worse than we think, and for this reason, we should always listen carefully when someone is criticizing us; we all have fragilities, and we try to hide them from everyone, especially ourselves.